How To Attract Women
Many men wonder how to be attractive to women. Jenny Bennett, relationship coach, shares her insights.
Men are out there, wondering how to attract women, and if they would just come and ask me, I could tell them precisely how to do it. The same information will also show you how to get your ex back when things have gone wrong between you.
As a relationship coach, you can imagine I see more women than men in my practice. Guys don’t like to talk about their relationships at the best of times, and they certainly don’t seek counselling the way women do, at the drop of a hat.
I have been listening to women talking about the men in their lives for so long, I have begun to see some serious themes - which means that I can tell you exactly how to attract women!
So, without further delay - here is what women really want. These are the charcateristics that catch her attention.
1) Women are attracted by a guy who is independent.
If you are always looking for approval, for her or from your friends, she will be turned off without necessarily knowing why. Women are attracted to a man who knows what he wants, and isn’t afraid to go for it.
2) Women are attracted by a guy who appears indifferent.
You thought that women were the ones to play “hard to get”? This one is definitely a case of what’s sauce for the goose, is sauce for the gander. It’s the man who seems like he doesn’t want or need a woman in his life who will be magnetically attractive to women.
The over-eager pursuer is a complete turn-off for women. The last thing you want to do is appear desperate, or even as though you are “on the prowl”. Your aim should be to give the impression that romance is the last thing on your mind. You appreciate her as a human being, not as a possible date.
3) Women are attracted by a guy who is funny.
A good sense of humor tops the list of almost every woman I have counselled. Just bear in mind that when she says that, she wants a guy who makes her laugh, not a guy who makes himself laugh with crass or pathetic jokes that don’t amuse her at all.
4) Women are attracted by a guy who is socially well-adjusted.
Now, this is a tricky one to master if you weren’t lucky enough to be born socially aware. Some guys have the ability to make people around them relax and feel confortable. That ability is magnetically attractive to women, especially beautiful women.
You can learn this ability, and it begins with noticing whether people are tense around you, or relaxed. Just paying attention to what makes people tense up, and what makes them relax, will automatically start to shift your own patterns.
Practice this one a lot, because the benefits will flow into all your relationships, and you will be a winner long before you attract the partner of your dreams.
Once you have her attention, you will need to be a master of romantic dinners, romantic movies, romantic weekend getaways, and romantic gifts to hold and increase that initial attraction.
The secret of how to attract women is really no secret - you just need to be an attractive kind of guy. Be independent, appear indifferent to her charms, be genuinely humorous, and get along with everybody. Before long, other guys will be buying you beers and asking you to teach them how to attract women the way you do.
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