Bedding Your Ex?
Still Want Your Ex?
When heterosexual or bisexual couples head for splitsville, the prospect of having sex with the other partner is as remote as growing wings. Just the sight of the other partner can bring on fits of anger and distaste. This is the case for those who really want out of an oppressive relationship. If the reverse is true, you will still fantasize about having sex with your soon-to-be ex.
You cannot let go but your pride won’t allow you to beg the other to stay or hit the sack - just one for the road. You take another nip from the hip flasks, a hurful keepsake of the romance that was.
The imprinted inscriptions of love ridicule you. Yet still you prefer to hold on to the recollections of the grand times you had, especially when you shopped for cheap groomsmen gifts. You teasingly bickered over the stainless steel flask because you wanted the round one and your mate favored the flask in a leather belt bouch for the groomsmen.
You know you want your ex back right that minute. But there is nothing you can do but bide your time for your ex’s return. But if the chance arises, would you dream of having a one-night stand with your ex?
The Way Around
If you just got out of dreadful marriage you will never entertain the thought of bedding your ex now and forever. But when after several years you meet her or him in a cafe, looking dazzling and extremely sexy, would that change your resolve?
Sex with an ex may or may not restore the feelings you’ve had for each other. If you think that this would revive old passions, think again. Once you are back together again for good, old habits will reemerge and fierce fighting will explode to disillusion both of you. But for the record, the reunion may help you realize what you’ve lost or what you have gotten rid of.
The risks of sleeping with an ex are not worth it when you have remarried or committed to someone else. If you are found out, you’ll lose all the efforts you’ve done to make your emotional life better with a new love. Or, if your ex-partner has remarried, the threat of being found out can wreck the second chance for his or her happiness. Knowing all these, is it still worth the danger and thrill to sleep with your ex?
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